Rewrite the backend in Rust with Axum

Replace the Python/kaya server in server/ with a Rust Cargo workspace of
three crates mirroring the old layout: tavolo-platform (lobby API, live-game
store, websocket endpoint, deadline scheduler, stats/Elo, OIDC sessions),
tavolo-scopone (pure scopone scientifico rules plus the platform adapter)
and tavolo-app (composition root and the `tavolo` binary with
serve/migrate/backfill-elo).

The HTTP and WebSocket contracts, error messages, Redis key layout and
Postgres schema are unchanged, so the existing web/ frontend and in-flight
games keep working. Notable differences: sessions are JSON under
tavolo:session: (Python pickle sessions invalidate once), LOGGING_CONFIG is
ignored in favour of RUST_LOG, DATABASE_URL must be Postgres, sqlx migrations
replace aerich, and OpenTelemetry exports Rust process metrics instead of
CPython gc metrics (no Postgres/Redis client instrumentation).

Docker Compose and the Kubernetes manifest now run the single Rust image
(embedded migrations, /static and /assets served by the app); the release CI
keeps building server/Dockerfile. The full test suite (scopone rules,
platform store/deadlines/stats/websockets, OIDC login flow, scopone e2e) is
ported and runs with cargo test --workspace; Redis/Postgres integration tests
are gated on TEST_REDIS_URL/TEST_DATABASE_URL.

.dockerignore

@@ -14,6 +14,6 @@
 .pytest_cache/
 web/target/
 web/dist/
-server/tests/
+server/target/
 docker-compose.yml
 opencode.json