Add chess-style Elo ratings for players

Each player's rating starts at 1500 and updates transactionally with
every finished match: a team's rating is the mean of its two members
and the standard K=32 formula decides the zero-sum delta applied to
both members of a team. Ratings are per game type in a new
player_rating table; match_player records each match's elo_delta.

- GET /api/leaderboard exposes elo and sorts by it
- GET /api/me/matches includes per-player elo deltas
- new GET /api/me/ratings returns the caller's rating per game type
- frontend: Elo column on the leaderboard, per-match delta in the
  history page, current rating in the lobby
- python -m tavolo.backfill_elo recomputes all ratings from the
  recorded match history (one-off backfill for existing matches)

web/style.css

@@ -49,6 +49,10 @@ body {
     margin-right: auto;
 }
 
+.whoami .rating {
+    color: var(--muted, #888);
+}
+
 .panel {
     background: var(--panel);
     border-radius: 12px;